The Biggest Burger and a Tiny Prayer: The Day My 5-Year-Old Taught a Restaurant How to Love

We were sitting in a booth at Waffle House, a typical morning filled with the clinking of silverware and the hum of conversation, when my five-year-old son, Josiah, suddenly went still. He was staring at a man standing outside the window—a man whose worn clothes and tattered bag told a story of hard miles and heavy burdens.
When Josiah asked who he was, I explained as gently as I could that the man was homeless. I told him it meant he didn’t have a house, and he likely didn’t have a meal waiting for him, either. I expected Josiah to be sad. I didn’t expect him to take action.

An Unexpected Invitation
Before I could say another word, Josiah was out of his seat. He ran to the door, waved the stranger inside with the enthusiasm of someone greeting a long-lost friend, and made an offer that silenced the entire restaurant: “You don’t have a home? You can eat with us!”
The man froze at the threshold. You could see the hesitation in his eyes, a look of someone used to being overlooked or told to move along. But as I nodded my encouragement, he stepped inside. The atmosphere in the diner shifted instantly; every conversation stopped, and every eye was on the small boy and the tired man.
![]()
Ordering “The Biggest One”
When our waitress arrived, Josiah didn’t wait for the man to check the prices or the menu. He leaned over the table, eyes bright with excitement, and made the executive decision: “Get him the BIGGEST burger we have!”
For the first time, a small, shaky laugh escaped the man’s lips. It was a sound that seemed like it hadn’t been used in a very long time.
The Moment That Broke the Room
The food arrived, steaming and substantial. But as the man picked up his fork, Josiah held up a tiny, commanding hand.
“WAIT! We have to pray first.”
In the middle of that crowded Waffle House, my son bowed his head, squeezed his eyes shut, and spoke directly from his soul. He didn’t use big theological words. He simply thanked God for the food, asked for a blessing on his new friend, and whispered, “Please help him not be sad anymore.”
By the time he said “Amen,” there wasn’t a dry eye in the building. The man was weeping openly. The waitress was dabbing her eyes with her apron. Even the cook had stopped mid-flip to take in the moment.
A Lesson in Humanity
My son didn’t see a “homeless man.” He didn’t see a statistic, a problem to be solved, or a person to be avoided. He saw a human being who was hungry, lonely, and deserving of a seat at the table.
We often spend our lives trying to teach our children about the world, but that morning, Josiah was the teacher. He reminded an entire room of adults that love isn’t a complex theory—it’s a hot meal, a welcoming smile, and the simple recognition that we are all in this together.
